Sentenced To Live
Sometimes everything falling apart is the best thing that can happen to you.
I wish I could paint a picture with my words to adequately describe life with chronic pain and a “life sentence” diagnosis. We are not the words that doctors use to explain our conditions. We believe it wasn't supposed to be like this. We are told that we are beautiful and normal looking and friends who haven't seen us for many months think we are doing and looking great.
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To Our Loved Ones... Thank you
Dear Loved Ones,
Thank you.
Thank you for being with us through our bad days, our even worse days and the sparingly good moments. The day to day grind of just getting through the day can be so overwhelming that we forget how hard it can be for our loved ones. We may not thank you enough out loud, but we so appreciate everything you do for us.
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Blame It On The Weather
It's a fabulous sunny day here in beautiful British Columbia, Canada, and I'm feeling in pretty good spirits because it's a low pain day for me.
For this week's blog post I thought I would share some of the insights I've gained from my own experience with Central Pain Syndrome.
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Flipping Your Pain Upside Down
Ask anyone who is in the world of illness and they'll tell you the truth: it isn't easy.
I have been challenged with Central Pain Syndrome and quite frankly, it’s flipping my world upside down. It's teaching me how to listen without prejudging, share without expectations and love without concern for my own comfort.
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It's Time to Shine a Light on Chronic Pain
When you are constantly in pain to the point that you would rather cut off every limb because it would probably be less painful, the last thing you want to hear is, “it’s in your head, move on with your life” or, “you don’t look sick.” It can be detrimental to your mental health and well being to constantly feel that you aren’t being believed.
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Living With Chronic Pain
Hi, I'm Kathy,
Thanks for stopping by.
This blog is here to teach you a few things you may not know, to share what pain is and isn't. To inspire you, and to encourage you to tap into your potential to change your experience.
What is happiness?
Aristotle said that happiness was the only thing that man wanted for which he could give no reason.
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How To Embrace Body Image Insecurity Surrounding Chronic Illness
Ever since I was a little girl, I was picked on and called names like string bean, daddy long legs, shrimp or toothpick. I remember feeling more sorry for the people feeling the need to call me these things than I did for myself. I was happy with my body. I was a strong athlete in gymnastics, tennis, and dressage. I used my skinniness to my advantage to reach under sofas, sleep under my own bed frame, dart between crowds and reach to the high cabinet.
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A Letter to Those Who Don't Know What Chronic Pain Feels Like
Dear World,
I am one of millions in the world with a chronic condition called Central Pain Syndrome. It is one of the most painful conditions and there is currently no cure. Many people who suffer are in such tremendous pain that it sometimes feels as though they are burning, freezing, being stabbed or torn.
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